Pros and cons of dating sites
Within 48 hours of joining Tinder, I had about 200 matches — which, as a writer/professional hermit, is probably more than I’d meet in five years doing the meet-and-greet method.
App and online dating is literally a mile-long buffet, with something to satisfy any craving. Cohen, an assistant professor in the Department of Psychology at St.
actual dating scene looks a little more like this: You swipe right, and so does he. Like tons of other singles, I’ve signed up for the apps and websites that promise easy, endless matches: Match, e Harmony, Tinder, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, OKCupid — you name it, I’ve tried it. But I had a sneaking suspicion that this 21st-century way of dating might actually be stunting our personal growth.
Dating, as we once knew it, feels pretty much over. “Laid-back guy, who likes sports and craft beer, just looking for a girl to have fun with” — you and every other man, apparently. Are we now too afraid to approach interesting people in real life because we know we can just go back to the comparative “ease” of approaching people online?
“Anthropologist Helen Fisher has called these ‘introducing sites’ rather than dating sites,” she tells Yahoo Health.